Liliya Solovyeva told about the reasons of breakup with the actor. Recently Ivan Zhidkov broke up with a girl who gave birth to son Stepan. Now the former lover of the artist determined to start a new life.
Last week it became known that the actor Ivan Zhidkov broke up with the civil spouse Lilia Solovieva, who gave him a son Stepan in October 2017. Fans didn’t understand what was the cause of the breakup of the pair, until recently, looked so happy.
“StarHit” contacted Lily – as it turned out, 34-year-old actor suddenly decided to break up with the mother of his second child.
Lily, how are you coping with the emotions after breaking up with Ivan?
In my heart, to be honest, I feel sick. But I already survived the most embarrassing stage. Especially when you realize that you have a small baby, we must move on. So that time is not to cry into the pillow there. Only fighting spirit!—
What happened? Why did you break up?
It was all going to break since April when we flew to rest in Sochi. Were saved, were saved, and reached its climax on June 7, we departed. Difficult to answer, what was the reason – maybe it was just I melted into the child in the home. Ivan, in turn, in the work. I missed his attention.
And now you keep in touch?
We do not communicate. About Stepa we have something to discuss. Point of no return became addressed to me a few words. After that I asked her not to text me anymore. As the saying goes, out of sight, out of mind – out. —
What were the words?
He said, “I don’t love you anymore”. I was hurt two and a half years, he said he was going to do for me anything now. Said that such a relationship like they have with Tanya (actress Tatyana Arntgolts, ex-wife of Ivan Zhidkova. – Approx. “StarHit”), will not. I considered it useless to prove something and to settle, in this case, we can only say goodbye.—
Of course, but until the specific amount is not agreed. I hope to resolve this issue peacefully. In any case, I’m not one of those women who cry that they have nothing! EA and child men. Otherwise, I will seek to have determined a fixed amount. —
Who supports you in this situation?
I don’t think I need to get out of depression. I was hurt, calm down. Now I meet with friends, even there’s a sense of freedom. Before if called buddies somewhere, I have something for the house, something needs to be done, waiting for the van and so on. To be honest, it’s hard for me to live in this house where we were together. Can’t stay there for long.
Mutual friends tried to reconcile?
Tried one but gave up after the first phone call!—
Why do you think there is any chance to reconcile?
Perhaps, I still don’t exclude that it can happen. But now I understand that if I with a few moments shaking hands and closed his eyes, a second time won’t allow it. Of course, I love the van, bore him a child. Once we were together 24 hours a day for a long time. But where is the guarantee that in time all this will not happen again? Understand that no one ever promised that this will not happen. But I find it unacceptable that the man is tired and leaves, while I sit with a child and no job.
Ivan Zhidkov about parting with the beloved: “I will not return!”
Do you think if your relationship is registered, this situation could have been avoided?
Still, no matter what anyone said, I still believe that in marriage this wouldn’t have happened. I think people, before you divorce, think three times, and not so flared up and left.
Why didn’t you get married?
I wanted, he insisted, but that never happened.—
What kept him to make you an offer of marriage?
There were a thousand excuses – “our relationship is stronger all the married men”, “it doesn’t matter”, “I had experience and still broke”, “I do everything”. Now understand that when a man does not want to marry, he won’t admit it and finds excuses. Perhaps in me now says the offense, but Joe turned away from me in the first year of a child’s life. Read what you write to my followers in Instagram – some left and during pregnancy. My hair stand on end. After this Willy-nilly I think that my case is not so bad. —
You communicated well with his daughter Masha. Now, probably, have lost touch?
Yes, we were very close. Previously spoke via video link and spoke, but now she stopped calling. Don’t know whether he said it or not. In any case, it’s his child, he decide to communicate with us further or not.
I see the future life? Anybody name the other men?
I still do not to a new relationship. I have a child on the street will not meet! And I don’t want to waste time and energy on the novels. I need to make a living. Of course, my parents support, but they can not support my family.—
How mom and dad react to this situation? Council helped with the height of his experience?
They divorced when I was three years old. Of course, support, dad says I as a woman need to be more patient, wiser. He never got any sides. Mom – for the preservation of the family. But not to forget about yourself. Of course, we cried together, but we must go further. She advises me to learn to find a babysitter.—
You wrote that the beginning of the school year in two schools…
Thought I’d work the presenter. Yes, and it just would be helpful to me personally and for the blog. Then I was invited to study in the European Academy of image. In any case, this new Dating app. All this I say Yes.