You’ve been together for a long time, but past the romance and passion gone somewhere, but mutual insults and claims have accumulated. Somewhere deep down know that it’s over, but not sure it’s worth to put a point right now or you can try to revive the relationship. Psychologist Elizabeth Babanov told about the ten signs that will help you to understand is to break the link completely or not.

1. You have no common interests.

He wants the fishing in the city and yoga tour. Or he’s on a business forum, while you’re at gatherings with friends. If the difference in the interest you still have a lot to talk about, then it’s not so bad. But if you are bored together, it is alarming.

2. Between you war

It may be cold or nuclear. Open or hidden aggression, the manipulation or long-term care? All this means that you do not solve the problems that arise between you. Resentment and discontent piling up and destroy even the most vivid and bright feeling.

3. You don’t have common goals.

He’s saving up for a new car and wants to get a mortgage, and you dream about how to close all current duties and run off to travel around the world. Or Vice versa. In a good relationship, our big goals on life are the same.

4. Dissonance on fundamental values.

You want a strong family, and he’s in an open relationship. It is important for you to man well earned, and he is waiting for financial help from you. The unity of values gives us a sense of security and confidence in the future. If not, you will always live in a state of anxiety. And this leads to paragraph 2 – nuclear or cold war.

5. You have erased the role of man/woman

In long-term relationships we play many roles. And often they are erased. Especially if the man and woman both earn money and do the housework. On the one hand, this distributes the load, on the other – reduces the polarity between a man and a woman. If the lady at work the big boss at home and forget about their gender, then in one space you start to live two representatives of the stronger sex. Or Vice versa, when the husband ceases to be a leader and is waiting for the couple of financial security, in the same house there are two women.

6. You don’t want each other to care

When we love, we are ready to do anything to the person we love happy. But as the piling up of resentment, we cease to care and attention. If you ceased to be a source of support for each other, it is another alarming signal.

7. You have lost trust to each other

Maybe someone lied, or even betrayed. If the one who is guilty, will not do anything to fundamentally change the situation, in the end, all good things will come to naught. And the partner who was betrayed will live in constant fear of a new deception.

8. One partner has grown strongly and the other not.

Let’s say you are together for several years. Both started from scratch after the students. But one of you is learning a lot and growing quickly as a person and a professional. And the other is stuck at the primary level. Here’s a good question: after today, would you want to go on a date? If the answer is no, then partner has ceased to be of interest to you as a person.

9. There’s no passion there

And you do nothing to fix it. “You” is both partners. If only one is interested in intimacy, a relationship will not save.

10. Zero romance

You don’t hold the handle on the walk. Don’t say every day “I love you” and don’t write messages with confessions. He does not pinch you in the kitchen while you prepare a romantic dinner. You stopped going on dates and don’t say each other tender words. The good news is that most of these signs can be changed. If you experience these symptoms and want to correct them come to a free master class that will give you a clear exit strategy from the current situation.

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