Eks-the participant “Houses-2” has frankly told about the family life. Olga admitted, as the husband refers to her sexy outfits and shared with “StarHit” the role in their lives played a part in the television project.
Eks-the participant “Houses-2” Olga Gazhienko considers herself a lucky woman. She loves her husband, Ilya, and doted in his son Kirill. However, according to Oli, it was not always so. In adolescence she suffered from complexes about appearance, but on the reality show ceased to notice some of its shortcomings. After meeting future husband the life of the ex-participants of the project have changed dramatically. Olga learned to be more patient and managed to achieve harmony. She was helped by special training, the certificate which she received from Ksenia Sobchak. Gazhienko told, what it has become over the years of family life, and explained why “not spending money on show-off.”
Olga, what are your plans for the 2017 year?
The whole family want to go on holiday in February, now is the time to pick up a ticket to the sea. And Jan think to spend at home. I want next year to save all that now is.—
What gifts were the most memorable?
As a rule, presents from loved ones. Mother gave birth on the day of the coat, sister – cool boots from Italy. And my husband gave me a piece of jewelry with sapphires. Ilya knows how to surprise me. We met a little over a month, and he gave me a Louis Vuitton purse, which I still wear, and purse like new. It’s probably a kind of symbol. When Elijah me something gives, it’s definitely something good. Even husband presented me with a camera, which is a long time in our family.—
What has changed in your relationship with Elijah six years?
The birth of a child greatly influenced our lives together. Everything became more calm, stable. Our attention shifted to Him. We try not to forget about yourself.
Do you have any restrictions? For example, a spouse that prohibits something…
No, perhaps that is why we are so long together. I have enough freedom-loving people, but it is true. I can not do anything to infringe upon and limit. In this Ilya understood me. Nothing ever banned.—
And even let you go somewhere for a long time with friends?
Of course. But I somehow don’t want it. Even when I came the first time to the project “House-2” in 20 years, Elena Bushina I was told that I’m a family man. Really, don’t like parties, clubs. For me family is priority. I understand that all the rest is tinsel.—
With any of the “House-2” continue to communicate?
Family Pynzar keep contact. We go on birthdays to each other, our children communicate. Temochka and he get along, they say they’ve been friends. They have such warm relations.—
What do you remember the part in the project “Dom-2”?
I must be the rare member who found love and started a family. The project changed my life. When I got there in 20 years, I was shocked I even wanted to leave. As I returned several times and I always thought that I have something not completed on telestroke. I came again, when my sister was pregnant. When I returned to the project for the third time, I met spouse. But I just decided to help my mom with the baby Rita… But it so happened that I had found my happiness. —
You got married, and then how was family life?
We had a tumultuous relationship from the beginning. I am very categorical. First, Elijah took my guts, and then began to try to change my attitude. I learned first to apologize. Then we had a turning point after the wedding: there are many misunderstandings. Former leading “House-2” Ksenia Sobchak very well we were treated and she personally presented the certificate of trainings of personal growth. We worked in mini-groups, but, nevertheless, took all classes together. After that, life changed. All my followers are still asking: “What kind of psychologist?”. We still remember Ksenia, because she helped us then. She said that she sees me something, I, in her opinion, made the same mistakes, so she wanted to make a gift. Since then everything had changed, everything became harmonious, we are ripe to have a baby. We are all very well thought out, never had accidents. We got married, when he realized that prepared. The same situation was when they decided to have a baby. I’ve been thinking, and we did not realize that trying to have a baby. I wanted to make sure. I think that the “House-2” has left its mark. It was very difficult to live in peace after the wedding. We are faced with many more provocations, when your relationship to discuss every day. I wanted to give birth in a harmonious relationship. After all, any stress is a challenge for the young family. The first three years the most difficult, then easier. We left the project “Dom-2” as did not want son raised under the gun cameras. —
After the appearance of Kirill’s has changed the climate in the family?
Of course. I think that during pregnancy we became close. When baby comes, you begin to better understand their parents. Before that I had some childish insults at them. I’ve rethought a lot of things, matured. I am grateful to my mother for the values that she laid. She taught us right from Housewives, to learn to be real women. Because I was a gymnast, my mom had me hang on all these sections. So the title “master of sport” – it is her merit.
How did you perceive the appearance of mothers on telestroke?
She went there to help Rita with the child. I didn’t expect that then it would have such a bright role. But too many things started to happen around my mom. —
How your family reacted to Eugene’s Cousin, when he began to meet with Rita?
At that time, we probably unduly interfered in their relationship, since Rita Junior. It was a difficult situation in which she was lost. If a man take a sober look at life, maybe she would treat all her feelings to him, but she came to us. All was unstable then.—
Now at Rita’s relationship with her husband Paul Marceau? He cares about her?
Sister is very grown up, pomudrel. Paul is more relaxed, homely and family man. However, with Eugene Kuzin my sister is now a good relationship. He calls mit, visits him, gives gifts. For a long time this was not all. Now everything is adjusted and became Mature. Each of them forgot their grievances, and both began to think about the baby. When Rita was young and free, she approached Jack, but when he was born Mitya, sister rose and cousin, unfortunately, “stuck”. Rita had no options, she became a mother she had.
How did your mother react to the fact that you and your husband still have started to live separately in March 2015? Not offended?
No, it was originally planned that we will live separately. We bought an apartment in a newly built house and waited until he finished, and we get the keys. But my husband was scared. Cousins said: “Ilya, you are going to run further than they see.” But it turned out okay. Mom never interfered in our Affairs. We are fully engaged in the child, never hired a babysitter. I so wanted the baby that was ready to engage them. Kirill was planned, desired, so we have to babysit him. Mom was even a little offended, because we didn’t let her near the baby.
As my husband’s parents communicate with Him?
Great! They fly from Krasnodar to us for the holidays, and also for every son’s birthday. The Pope Elijah is still the only grandson, so he Dotes on him. When we arrive in Krasnodar, where He can be everything! The son knows it, he’s paying so much attention.
What interests Kirill?
He is a very inquisitive boy. Loves cartoons, and even the transmission of a scientific nature. In the three years he had watched the program about the lost continent of Atlantis. By the way, in our library son found a book about human anatomy. He loves it. It is interesting how the process of digestion and blood circulation. But I’m not gonna teach him how to read, you do not want the burden of the child. Moreover, for all classes should be the desire. Yet we go on TRYING, and next year I want to give him up for figure skating.—
To whom the son is more like: you or Ilya?
Sometimes it is very neat, serious, likes order in things. He is the spitting image of Elijah. But despite this, he is very emotional. I watch as the son likes to rejoice. “Look, mom, look at that sky!” he tells me sometimes. This He got from me.—
You manage to retire together with her husband? Go somewhere together?
Unfortunately, such a chance comes rarely. I’m trying to fix it, but we are to blame is that before too took care of the child, so he doesn’t like anyone to stay with just grandma. Since we now live far away from each other, it is impossible to organize quite rare. But the three of us also love to spend time.—
What does Ilya?
It works in the same company with my father in the field of aviation. Dad got him to this place. If Elijah was an irresponsible person, it would not have happened. Now my husband is often on business trips, has been a career.
Do you ever have disputes over financial matters?
Initially we had some kind of agreement, since the General views on life and priorities. We had little money to spend on Ponty. For both of us is not the most important.—
Do you have any women’s weaknesses in terms of clothes shopping?
Probably not. I was never obsessed with brands. We recently spoke with Elina Kamiren. Here she is suffering: rents an apartment on Kutuzovsky Prospekt. But she is constantly short of money. That is, all of these benefits Elina need to boast. But if you’re constantly complaining, then why are you doing this? I don’t understand. I have other priorities. I don’t want to show everyone how pathetic I am, how much money I have in there. I do not spend money for show-off.—
How do you feel about criticism in social media?
I severely react to all this. If the “House-2” we had no options, “Instagram” – it’s still a personal space. Now, few people who write negative, maybe they all are already blocked. I’m used to that I discuss. Clean bad in Instagram, I need only positive emotions. Let them discuss in their groups.—
And the husband is against your overly sexual images in microblogs?
Well, I’m not expose yourself. Ilya gave me freedom in this matter, has ever forbidden to wear some sexy outfits. I appreciate that, as in previous relationships it was tough on this issue. Then the brain was taken out, if I wore something too revealing. Now I’m not trying to show myself in sexy outfits.
Why did you decide to lose weight with Rita on the dispute this summer?
We wanted to throw. But in the end, canceled the dispute. Well we both lost weight. It turned out that was a hard diet. To lose weight, you need to do more restrictions. But I think that repeat. By the way, I like to lose weight with “StarHit”. You are so good!—
The weight doesn’t come back?
Unfortunately, back. Apparently, the spring will have to re-lose weight.
Have you thought about having a second child?
I really want to. Since I am now fully engaged in the education of myself, Kirill, I’m waiting for the moment when he grows up. Then there will be more time and opportunities to have a second child. The son is well behaved in public places, but still sometimes he is naughty. For example, if we have too long walked. He’s getting tired. But not hysteria, not asking him to buy a toy with tears in his eyes. I calmly to this attitude than her husband. He has not yet learned.—
Somebody advises, how to raise a child?
Sometimes it’s mom, but she once again climbs. Give me advice only when I ask.
Did not think the love of photography to turn into a profession?
All things are possible. While this is only my hobby. I like the family photo. I even once went to the courses.—
In what areas would like to try yourself?
Since I did gymnastics, I’m thinking to open a school. I want to realize myself in this sphere. I also liked to be leading. I’m more a creative person, so I see myself in these areas.
How to get along with your parents?
We have a good relationship. I get from parents only help, they don’t interfere with my family life. Mom always supports me. She helped me to arrange the apartment: picked up a chandelier, the kitchen, found a great model of the Cabinet. Elijah gets along well with my parents, as I follow the rules: never complain to them at her husband.—
You do not mind the thinness mom?
Well, she’s not so skinny. She dismissed the band, set it during surgery to reduce the stomach, so began to gain a little bit. If I saw that mother was too fond, I would she said. She tries for a monitor, looks good, motivates us with Rita by his example. It gives confidence that you may in the future look worse.—
Are you ready for some operation associated with the change in appearance?
Yet. Despite the fact that all I write about the nose. Since the training, I was a small hump, I’m not ashamed of it. I have a bad camera angles in the photo, which I try to avoid, but I’m still not ready to go under the knife. Me and this love, I also like. And since childhood I was lop-eared. I was shy in school, went constantly with her hair. Now everything is different: or ears began to lie better, or I became more confident. I now post pictures with the tail in Instagram. Complex anymore. When I write: “You don’t want to do yourself a nose?”, I always want to reply “And you don’t want to find himself a brain?”. It’s surgery, not in the grocery store to go to. There is a risk, I don’t want. I had crooked teeth. I wore braces. I was shy, so I wanted to fix it. Sometimes I look at my contemporaries who have done a lot of plastic surgery, and I do not envy them. I can understand the mother. It was hard to accept the changes of his age, when it was called “grandmother”. Mommy took a chance and went on a circular lift. But I don’t understand 18-year-old girls who inject Botox, remove lumps Bichat. I don’t want to. I don’t mind Hiking to the beautician, but for operations should come of age. Maybe I don’t know what its like for the people who have real defects in appearance.