The lukeria Ilyashenko: “I Reproach myself for not able to say goodbye to father”


Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом» The actress, who played in the movie “Dance to death”, talked about the relationship in the family. When Lusha was little, she lost her dad. According to the artist, at first she could not believe what happened. Ilyashenko admitted to “StarHit” why criticize her mother and explained how he coped with the pain.

      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»

      Today, the sixth of April, on cinema screens out the picture “Dance to death”. The main female role in a fantastic movie is played by lukeria Ilyashenko, remembered by the audience for the TV series “Betrayal” and “Sweet life.” This time the heroine is 27-year-old star is kind and modest girl Anya is caught in a difficult situation. According to Ilyashenko, she was glad that he tried himself in a new role. “StarHit” spoke with Lusha on film career, and also learned that criticizes her mother and why she still can not forget the father.


      In the “Dance to death” you will be in a completely different way. While it is difficult to say how a new job would be perceived by the viewer remember you in the role of sexy seductress… Which film is considered the most significant in your career?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Of course, the “Sweet life”. This is a very good project where all the artists play well, as well as the great Director and cameraman. —
      You remade yourself for the role of Valeria?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Yeah, I don’t like her. I had to tailor its features for the character. It was difficult to walk in sexy outfits, because in real life, I wear sneakers, comfortable clothing.


      After such roles in the series, many viewers perceive you as a frivolous person?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Some people think that the actor who played the role, the same in life. Everything else, I was then called to the casting, where again it was necessary to transform into the treacherous lover, seductress… “the Dance to death,” I never Leroy. The image is quite the opposite. In the picture I turned from “harsh boy”, although there is one scene where I “pulled a Leroy”. Constantly playing the same character stuff.
      As working closely with the Director and partners on the site? Many had to dance in the film?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Andrei Volgin is very cool! He is ready to cooperate with the artist and “to look” with it character. Very grateful to him. Ivan Zhvakin is an amazing person. When you’re at work, it is very important to communicate with nice people. Vanya we danced one set and the rest of the scenes – only some elements. We had choreographers who pointed out that the right thing to do, so we didn’t pull each other.—
      Did you “call” novels?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»No, I share professional and personal. Never had such ties. I love the saying: “the Woman is an actress a bit more than a woman. Male-actor a little less than a man.” But I’m not attracted to partners who work with me in one area.—
      And what are men like?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»No stereotypes I have. Everyone was seeing was totally different. Did not create the image of a man in the dream.


      Do not you think that each partner needs to be better than the last?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»No, you do not fall in status, not in appearance, there are working some other things, pheromones. Love it evil either like the person or not. —
      What qualities attract you to men?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»I can’t stand greedy and stupid. They don’t have that right. I’m not saying that I need someone who will give a Bentley, diamonds… a Person can have low income but must be generous. I’ve met men who make a little money but are ready to give you the last. There are wealthy representatives of the stronger sex, but the coffee can’t pay. Stupid is a real nightmare! And then there are those who consider themselves intelligent. You want to communicate with people who are better than me. They learn a lot. And in a relationship partners need to progress, and not otherwise.—
      By the way, why I left the faculty of Philology?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»People should only choose the profession that he likes, otherwise he will not be successful. Only in our country in 17 years, you need to decide the future calling. Everywhere overseas is a special year, during which graduates are contemplating what field to apply themselves. My mom told me that you need higher education, so went to learn languages. In English, I succeeded, but not because of the University. I had a boyfriend-American. We met by chance. He saw me at the Mall on the casting of a modeling Agency, and six months later found my phone. Entering the University, I just went on about my mom. Only now, 27 years later, I decided to become a critic in order to work as an appraiser of Antiques.


      Like mother relationship? She forced you to do something, or directed?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»My mom likes to criticize. On the one hand it is good, but on the other… still resent that. But her words spur me on some things, self-improvement. But, you know, when children love, they get more holistic. I for the life of rebel. Mom tells me that I’m not beautiful – go and do a photo shoot bright. Believes thick – thin. —
      Were there times when you were praised?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»No, hardly. Just with age it has become less criticize. But, as a rule, the words of parents are hitting hardest on the child’s self-esteem.—
      But as a mom about your boyfriend?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Like many other parents of the Soviet school, it is more important the material status of men than that have a happy daughter. Mom doesn’t quite understand that love is just, not because of any machines or diamonds. In principle, it is aware of what is happening in my life. It has always been. Don’t know whether this is good or bad…—
      When your father died, you stood by your mom?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»I was 10 years old, I grieved the loss. Still reproach myself, that I could kiss him during the farewell. Haven’t visited him at the cemetery a few years. Mom was very offended and I was not able to explain to her that if I come there, and there will remain. Time passed, and I realized what happened. I was scared that I couldn’t remember how his voice sounded. Recently in a dream I heard the father was amazed…—
      And how did you move to Moscow?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»When leaving from Samara, the main trauma was that I was separated from his beloved grandmother and girlfriend. Then I didn’t want to live in the capital, while her mother talked about the big opportunities. Also I’m an introvert, so it’s hard to meet people. In the first years of his stay in Moscow is difficult to get along with peers. Besides, then my dad died. He worked as an artist at home and drove me to school. Two months I didn’t go to study, as it was difficult to overcome the road on which we usually walked together with my dad. I went to the ballet. I sometimes skipped, and movements nothing worked. But gradually adapted to it.—
      You left the ballet only because of the injury, or was there a reason?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Many circumstances influenced my decision. We were supposed to go to Italy with the ballet “Swan lake”. I came to the troupe. This period coincided with my relationship with the American. He was older than me by 22 years. In the morning I went to the ballet, then went to the University, and in the evening – with him to clubs. It so happened that I dropped the immunity. When dancing on Pointe, for various injuries, corns. And then began the inflammation under the nail of the ring finger feet. Mom tried to stop the operation, stabbed me injections of antibiotics. But nothing could be done. I called the wife of the artistic Director and said that can’t go on tour. I heard that I have to dance in any condition. And it is for 400 euros that I earned in six months. “I do not care how it will go,” said the head. Then realized I didn’t want to suffer and decided to leave. I didn’t want to live like this, forcing myself.
      Mom insists that you made a family, gave birth to her grandchildren?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Yes, when I was 17, I guess. She later gave birth to me, so always says she wants grandchildren. And I’m not ready. Are of the opinion that some people should not have children as they give birth just like that. After all, a baby needs financial base and adequate man near who will help grow… The worst thing is the poor children. To give birth to a baby, you have to want. Yet counsel the mother achieves the opposite effect. An adult should have some experience to pass on to his offspring.—
      What, in your opinion, should earn a man to create a family with him?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Of course, for me it is not very important. But that’s a different situation if you two poor artist, then it will be necessary to feed another creature. Children is expensive. In a month you need to earn about half a million, if not grandparents. But I would relatives were not allowed in his family. —
      Why?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»Grandparents can provoke quarrels spouses. As for the children, you cannot blame a child that it broke a career. Need to feel a separate person and not an appendage for the baby. Need money for baby sitters, kindergartens, hobby groups. I don’t want the child is needed. The happiest kids are the ones whom you love.


      Are you willing to sacrifice career for the sake of the child or the beloved?
      Лукерья Ильяшенко: «Корю себя за то, что не смогла проститься с отцом»The real chosen one is a person that does not force you to make such a choice. He should support me. Some perceive women only as housekeepers or cooks. To me such men are not interested. Nowadays it is silly to choose a wife according to the principle: “She’s a good cook”. More important to look for the person with whom you’re interested. There are also specially trained people, who will clean and cook. If he says “abandon career” means doesn’t love you.—
      I never would have forgiven a person?
      Well, cheating, I forgave. All can be forgiven. Even with the pain. But there are different situations. If we can’t be happy, then you need to go, sometimes making an effort. It’s not love when you are constantly tormented. Rather, a painful affection. When the relationship becomes more negative aspects, it is pointless to keep them.