Jay-z said in an interview with The Van Jones Show on CNN that saved their relationship with Beyonce in the divorce.
“She’s my soul mate, the man I love. If you never loved, do not understand love or just don’t know how to move on, then you will be complications in the relationship. Sometimes. You can either face the problem or ignore it until things get really bad. We decided to fight for our love and for our family, that the children had another example before my eyes — we wanted to break this vicious circle for black men and women,” says the rapper.
Jay-Z claims that words difficult to change the situation. the most important is the actions. “The best apology is to change their behavior.»
It is equally important to recognize their mistakes. “You have to understand the pain caused to the person near you needs to hear it. It takes time. It’s hard: it’s hard to listen to and see the pain, to stay close, but you need to be strong. In a sense, it was a great experience,” says the husband of Beyonce.
Recall that a couple of years ago in the relations between spouses Beyonce and Jay-Z was a difficult period, the consequence of which could be a divorce. Jay-Z cheated on his lover that could not fail to affect relations. Your feelings the singer has expressed in the Lemonade album, almost every song which was about infidelity and betrayal. Jay-Z experienced at least, which resulted in his work in the album album 4:44. The details on the topic pair has not publicly given, but Jay-Z said in an interview.
Giving an interview to journalists of The New York Times, the 47-year-old musician told about the change and blamed it on a childhood in a dysfunctional district. “There had to survive. And when you go in this hard mode, and begin to behave accordingly. You have to turn off all emotion. Even with women you’re staying emotionally closed, you can not find a common language… In my case it was more serious. And from hence it comes out: infidelity.”says the rapper.
As for his wife, to Jay-Z it was difficult. It could lead to divorce. “Many people just walk away. The divorce rate is so high because most people just can’t see myself from the outside.”says the rapper.
Thanks to the work and creativity the pair were able to survive the difficult times and to forgive each other. “In a hurricane the safest place is in the center. So it’s a nice place right in the midst of pain. Then we just sat there. Yes, it was not comfortable and we had a lot of conversations. The hardest thing in the world to see on someone’s face, the pain, the cause of which was you. Have to deal with them,” concluded Jay-Z.