Last week, the 35-year-old wife of Alec Baldwin told followers on instagram that you may lose your fifth child. Despite the efforts of doctors, there was a high chance of losing the baby, what happened this week. Hilaria said that still lost the baby.
“Today the ultrasound showed that our baby no longer beats… it’s over… fortunately, near me the beating heart of the most beloved people. I am surrounded by incredible care, I was very lucky. Thank you for your attention and support, and for sharing their personal stories. Together we are the power… I hope we will continue the conversation on this topic, and we stick together in joyful and sad moments of life. I wish you all love,” writes Hilary in the same instagram, accompanied by a comment touching family photo.
The problem of miscarriages, which frankly told a yoga instructor on his blog, attracted the attention of journalists. The children’s mother Baldwin wrote an essay about her fifth pregnancy to Glamour magazine, in which he spoke about his feelings associated with a failed pregnancy; explained why he decided to tell about the incident to the public: “I understand why some women prefer to keep this pain a secret, but everything is very individual: some are better able to cope with it alone, while others need the participation from the side. Women deserve to be able to do whatever is necessary for healing. The day after the ultrasound I came home depressed. Community in the social network gives me strength, so I wrote a post on Instagram,” wrote Hilaria.
The star said that problems during and before pregnancy faced her friends, who long time could not conceive and bear children. During pregnancy, each of the four children Hilaria was afraid of miscarriage.
“I want to confess that most likely I will soon miscarry. I always promised myself that if I ever do get pregnant, I will inform you early enough. I don’t want to hide it and pretend that everything is fine. I think it’s important to tell the truth. I hope my experience will help other people. In the first trimester, many women try to hide their pregnancy, but for me it’s quite difficult. I’m sick, I’m tired, my body is changing. I don’t want to pretend, I hope you will understand me. That is what is happening: the embryo has a heartbeat, but it is very weak, and the fruit is slow to Mature,” wrote Baldwin in a blog about the fifth pregnancy.
Doctors warned the couple about the high probability of losing a child, but Hilary did not give up. With family support she was able to handle it. “My husband and children help me to behave in hands and to look at the world positively even in difficult situations. I am also grateful to my friends and doctors — they are all incredibly good to me. I hope that my confession will spare other women from fear to speak on this subject,” shared Hilaria.