The presenter said “StarHit” the help of the psychologist, divorce, and relationship with the father. Anfisa Chekhov believes that cheating is not a reason to ruin a family. She doesn’t resent her ex-husband Guram Bablishvili.
“Thank you for the reminder about the anniversary! – Anfisa laughed, having heard the offer to do an interview on her 40th anniversary, which it will celebrate on December 21. – Honestly, I forgot…”
We met on the first floor of an Italian restaurant. If you are looking for VIP lounge, Chekhov had curtained Windows in the floor. “This is not to distract, – explained the celebrity. You won’t be able to talk to you – will approach, asking for an autograph and a selfie. I’m not against dialogue, but only at work during seminars and events. In normal life I want to be normal and go about their business”.
“In my dreams we love each other”
Two months ago, you went through a divorce with actor Guram Bablishvili. As explained to my son that you are now not together?
We separated in June. Solomon once asked, why daddy isn’t home. I explained that we were no longer husband and wife, but, more importantly, left for him by loving parents and definitely will always be near. Solika is arranged after he asked no questions. Moreover, the son is often seen with Guram, have not felt any changes. He takes him to daycare and taking from there, they walk together. In General, we do not have a Sunday dad, and the most complete.—
Why are you still broke?
Seven years have changed, the relationship was not good enough for us, and this spring, it finally became clear – we are not on the way, although both were very good. Plus Guram plans to move to Georgia, and I don’t want and can’t live there. Moscow – the place where all like.—
Maybe the reason was the fact that he admitted to cheating?
You see, if I was all arranged marriage, casual relationship husband on the side would have been unlikely to destroy the family. I admit: people who live together for many years, sometimes there’s infidelity. And then the question is how you perceive it – detract from or what happened to make your relationship better, will give them a new breath, will understand, who and that is not enough, and try to change everything. I always choose the latter.
Not afraid to grow from Solomon sissy boy?
No, because, first, the Solik is not devoid of men of education, and secondly, I like people who are interested in astrology believe there are certain planets, their presence in the horoscope of a boy is fraught with the fact that he will grow up a Mama’s boy. My son does not. So even if I work hard, it is not in danger of becoming flabby. Although he is very attached to me, we kiss and MiniCAM.—
You, too, grew up without a dad, communicating with him?
No. But this is not the case when people don’t talk because they hate each other. He left when I was only four years old, and I’m all for it you are forgiven. Difficult to communicate with a person today, open your soul, and tomorrow he black you on a talk show. I’d like to be friends with him, and in my dreams we are loving the father and his daughter. But in reality, not glued…—
With his grandson he seems?
Dad’s not about the children. He needed only those who could be useful. Perhaps Solomon will be interesting when they start to earn.
It was not terrible in 39 years to be one?
When you love, respect and appreciate yourself, you even can not think how can such fear. Know that gold, like me, long alone will remain. This fact confirms that after the divorce greatly increased attention to my person. “Direct” is communications: writing and students with the requests from the “I’m a simple country boy, tell me, pray!”, and the oligarchs with a proposal for a certain amount to spend time with them. Seriously for such I certainly do not belong.—
How to meet you?
As with any ordinary woman. Or wait until we will bring a case or to take the initiative. For example, if I’m in the restaurant for an intelligent man, polite and interested in a conversation, it’s possible that I’ll give him a phone number. Why not?—
How to be a man, to entice you?
Seven years was not in the search, I forgot to answer this question… first of all realized, who survives and lives in the pleasure and just as I gets a thrill from it all. Still smart with a good sense of humor. Plus, it is important to me with loved to talk about what was, is not only about buying a juicer, but also on more philosophical topics. This confirms the experience with Guram. Remember, have toured together in the hotel in the room next door there lived the actor Boris Smolkin. One night we Guram woke up about four o’clock, sleep was not – entertained themselves with conversations about space, the world, the Universe… after 30 minutes, Boris Grigoryevich began to knock at the wall: “shut up already! There would have had sex, about space they five in the morning talking!”
Once again, she would marry the actor?
Probably not. Still, it’s a very fickle profession. Today, you can act in a good movie, and then six months to sit without work. I need a more stable man. Plus the artists fine spiritual organization, they often flirt…—
There is a chance for someone who earns less than you and lower status?
No, not anymore. Now unable to admit it to myself. In my life there were enough men with incomes below and, as experience has shown, nothing good came of it. I’m by nature a leader, and when a man still earns less, he just can’t feel the relationship is. And on the eve of the anniversary, about which you reminded, realize no time to wait when the man will start to earn enough to provide for his family.—
A divorced man with children can become your companion?
Well, I have in this respect no prejudice, even willing to be friends with his spouse – the former, future. Yes, I like kids and marriage, extramarital… it is Important that the man cared about the heirs from previous relationships, because wife is a substance passing, and the children forever.—
Ready to give birth?
Of course! And not one child. I have good genetics, I and 50 can become pregnant. In the extreme case – in the footsteps of Alla Pugacheva.
“Funny old lady”
Have you already decided how to mark the anniversary?
While I think. At this time I will be on location in Sochi. So either celebrate at work, or break abroad with friends for a couple of days.
Do you have many?
Yes, I have a few good friends, but star – only Lera Kudryavtseva, Anastasia Tsvetaeva, Kate Gordon. The most intimate sharing, and psychologist. Go to him with 25 years spoke for the first time after I was out of work plus I was beaten by a lover. Went to the reception to hear what I’m poor, unhappy, and men are goats, but she explained to me: everything in life is my choice, and I let this happen to me. Ran away from her office sparkling heels… And then the psychologist called and said that there are two options – continue to hold the full from men and life, or to take responsibility for what is happening and begin to change. I had the strength and mind to choose the latter.—
I regret on the threshold of the anniversary?
About anything, although once did a lot of stupid things. It seemed that the youth would be eternal, so smoked, abused body through diets and diet pills, eating everything, a little sports… Today I love myself and monitor the health, nutrition, lifestyle. In their second forty I want to be mobile, jumping and not riding a wheelchair. I will be happy and healthy old lady.—
In the news, and then there are the news a La “Anfisa Chekhova thin again”. Your secret to winning over your weight.
A lot of them, and several pages are not enough to tell all. Soon, by the way, will release a series of webinars on this subject – follow my Instagram. But briefly: to lose weight harmoniously and permanently, you need to change your psychology, and then food. That’s what I did. For the health one and a half years ago gave up sugar. Do not eat meat or poultry, only fish and seafood. But it is unable to sit at the table after the notorious six in the evening. And how differently, if you go after midnight? Most importantly – do not eat 2-3 hours before sleep and dreams.—
To the beautician often go?
Not really. Due to time constraints. Home regularly use a good, proven creams plus take the vitamins for youthful skin.—
And to plastic surgery as a treat?
I can’t yet. I hope by the time I’ll need it, medicine far step to get rid of wrinkles is possible without a scalpel. And now too early to think about it. That’s going to do an interview for the 50th anniversary and discuss!