Трудный путь без любимого: Милана Каштанова и Ириней Калачев расстались This girl had a lot of dreams and aspirations. But to be they were prevented by criminal negligence. Ice block that fell from the roof of the head, almost killed her and made invalid. For eight years, Milan bedridden, but not going to give up.
Трудный путь без любимого: Милана Каштанова и Ириней Калачев расстались

Milan Brown was just 21 when she sailed from Tallinn to St. Petersburg for a great love. Dreamed about friendly and strong family, mastered the profession of a psychologist in a prestigious University, loved walking around the city on foot and by bike. “Right after school Milan went to study in Denmark, she is fluent in English, – says the girl’s father, Vadim Kashtanov. But her beloved Irinej Kalachev, with whom they met since high school, chose the Institute in St. Petersburg. Year people suffered in separation, and then my daughter decided to move in with the boyfriend. The matter quietly went to the wedding”.

However, in his native Tallinn Milan returned without a diploma and a husband. The girl was forced to relearn how to speak, move, eat…

Nightmare

Трудный путь без любимого: Милана Каштанова и Ириней Калачев расстались

Winter 2010 in St. Petersburg turned out to be really snowy. Utilities cleaning could not cope. The city was drowning in snow. With old houses is dangerous hung huge icicles. 5 February day of Milan was in a hurry to study at one of the Central streets. The University had some kind of a couple of hundred meters away, when suddenly the dark… With one of the roofs at the time were hit by the frost, and a huge chunk fell right on the girl.

Later workers were justified: that they had shouted, tried to warn… But the exterior camera showed that their words are lies. To seek justice in court helped Irenaeus. He then started a serious battle with zhks №2, where staff did not put a barrier in the hazardous area, launched a media campaign to raise funds for treatment of his beloved. But only three years later after the incident, Brown was ordered to pay compensation in the amount of almost 10 million –a record amount that has ever managed to sue the employees of housing.

In the hospital of Milan was brought in critical condition with a fracture of the skull base, brain hematoma, a large blood loss. Doctors only heads shook: with such injuries even until the morning will not last… Contrary to the predictions, Milan survived. However, remained in a coma. “It seemed like everything that happens – some kind of nightmare, – says Vadim. – The verdict of doctors – one worse than the other. Someone said that she will remain a vegetable, others that die from day to day.”

Трудный путь без любимого: Милана Каштанова и Ириней Калачев расстались

In may of that year, the victim managed to carry home. But in Estonia, the medicine was powerless. There was a hope of the German doctors – they at least agreed to try. After 10 months of coma, the girl came to. The first thing said is “yes”. No, she is not forgotten neither Russian nor Estonian. Just physiotherapists from the clinic in Cologne chatted with the patient unconscious in the English language.

What happened on that fateful day, she can’t remember until now. Knows only the stories of relatives Yes. Erased from the memory, and a few months before the tragedy.

“Scary moments was not considered, – says the father. Two years ago the state of Milan was sharply rhodochrous: stopped us to respond to questions not answered, eyes open but gaze into the void… thought it was the end. Fortunately, the chief neurologist of the center of neurosurgery named after N. N. Burdenko found the cause. Daughter had long given drugs against epilepsy, but they have slowed. And since never had a seizure, the dose is lowered, but this has led to the opposite effect. Once all returned, Milan came to life”.

Song to live helps

Since then has passed eight years. Over the shoulders of young women, has recently celebrated its 30th birthday, dozens of surgeries and a long rehabilitation. And although full recovery is still very far away, and Milan can clearly and coherently to talk, to move one arm, move around in a wheelchair with help from his family. There are difficulties and soznaniem – before my eyes go out of focus, but managed to pick up points, allowing to see and to go online for a little while. She even started a Facebook page where he communicates with friends. Thirst for knowledge is also still there: the order of the day there is time for studying Spanish and drawing. And in August last year has added vocals suggested that it is useful for the internal organs and sentiments in General. “The first lesson of Milan was barely audible, the strength is not enough, – says the teacher Elina Gerodes. But recently, during warm-UPS I said, “Please be quiet”. Both froze for a second, realizing what had happened, and then laughed. After all, before this it was impossible to imagine”. The voice of the girl after classes have become stronger, breathing became deeper, the body has improved. And before the last New year she took a swing at a home concert. And it worked!

And the family got fluffy pet named Toffee. The girl had long dreamed about a little dog, and on the day of birth was waiting for her four-legged surprise Chihuahua puppy. “She picked his name, smiles Milan. – When I saw an Association with candy. A little, sweetie…”

The long road

Doctors say that did not expect such fantastic progress in the status of the trust. The only unsolved problem is intolerable headaches. Is the girl to take a vertical position as they immediately appear. Because of this, it is difficult to sit and stand to use the machine…

“Wherever we asked and the brain Institute in St. Petersburg and in Helsinki and Tartu. But nobody really could help, – says Vadim. One of Tallinn’s doctors suggested that the point is deformed jaw”. It gradually began to return to the place in December will have another operation.

“You really want to recover and live as my classmates and peers – says Milan, trying to carefully pronounce every word. – My dream is to learn, to go to work. And solve all the problems with memory – they are still present”.

But on a personal Milan hard to say. With Irenaeus long ago they broke up, now they are connected only friendship. “Destiny and distance divorced guys, no matter how long he was there with her daughter, says Vadim. The young man was in St. Petersburg – he is there to study, work. But when it happens in Tallinn, comes to visit.”

And so we live Kashtanova, setting a small goal and step by step closer to them. Not to go crazy in this situation, it helps a sense of humor. “Not to say that we are joking from morning to evening. Some time we even didn’t laugh. But now it’s all right. And Milan, when necessary, can always smile,” says the father of the family.

If you want to help Milan:

Swedbank

MILANA KAŠTANOVA

Account number (IBAN) : EE082200221053223516

BIC: HABAEE2X

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