Oles Zheleznyak: “In difficult moments lie on the bed and cry”

Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу» The actress told “StarHit” how she manages to raise four children, while a lot of work and why she ended up in slavery. In an exclusive interview with Olesya Zheleznyak told about family relationships, difficulties in dealing with teenage son and faith.

      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»

      Olesya Zheleznyak, who became famous after the film “silver Lily”, a rare guest at social events. As recognized herself an actress, time for events, no. She is torn between filming, touring and family. Olesya four children: 13-year-old Sam, 10-year-old Agafia, 6-year-old Prokhor and 3-year-old Thomas. This week on 16 March in hire leaves a Comedy “Lucky case” in which the ore played the wife of the hero of Andrei Rozhkov. In anticipation of the premiere Olesya has shared with “StarHit” what to do in moments of desperation and how to solve family problems.

      “Just love my husband”


      Olesya, what do you have in common with the heroine of the film “Lucky case”?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Mortgage. She pronounces the beautiful words: “have a mortgage. Now 30 years will live in slavery”. On application of husband – Rozhkova about what the deal is framed at him, she retorted: “Well, I th? Married to a slave.” Here and in real life I am in the same position. Bank debt and interest reconcile with many. Fortunately, we still have to pay for 12 years and not 30.—
      As your family is the budget allocated?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»I run them as the main breadwinner. And my husband, actor Spartak Sumchenko is more at home with the kids. He is the stronghold of our family. While the responsibilities are distributed as follows. Spartacus – my husband and I his wife. I just love it, I don’t need it I won. Well do without gifts and flowers bring out the theatre.
      So rare to hear it nowadays. How do you manage everything?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»I don’t have time, all on the fly. Rode home, fed the kids, hugged, kissed. Ran away again. Fortunately, the mother-in-law waiting in the wings. And the fourth baby we have a new assistant. Now with us lives a nice woman who looks after kids and home. Prepares periodically, because I don’t have time, and my husband does not know how. Generally with age, children are changing: their business, lessons, school. All you need to distribute. But when I’m home, I’m just mom. The role of teaching in travel or crossings.—
      It’s hard to be a working mom?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»What can I say? If you look at our country almost all the mothers work. And my profession in this regard – not the worst. Of course, multiple crossings is not. But when I play in Moscow, from the house leaving only the day and not at 8am as the office staff. For example, today was able to sleep until ten o’clock. Asked the children not to interfere, to play themselves. And then we all walked together.—
      Your eldest son Sam’s a teenager. There are difficulties in communication?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Like everyone else. Periodically, he podviraet. For example, tells me that patrocini. And when every six months I get to electronic diary – still do not understand how to use it, the husband shows – it turns out that things are not so rosy. He has come and twos, and threes. Include voice command, start to yell. Then everything is forgotten until next time.
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»
      And at PTA meetings occur?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Honestly, never was. They are usually held in the evenings, and I have at this time plays. Goes dad.

      “We help the Church”


      Spartacus is now somewhere removed?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»No, but not long ago you did work on the series “the Game”. By the way, the children watched the Pope on TV. But at the movies with me, we rarely get. I don’t really like it. Just imagine yourself one, and see a very different lady. Eh, I think, well, again, to straighten up forgotten. Stooping,… More we play with Spartak in the play “my Dear”, but, fortunately, infrequently. The husband and wife to work hard.—
      You are already 18 years together… what’s the secret to your marriage?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Us in life helps the Church. Try the whole family several times a month to go to Church. There we go to confession and receive Holy communion. We have a spiritual father, father Demetri. Older children, of course, already less than you want, making excuses. And so… What other secrets are there? We must tolerate. That’s all. In life aren’t anything to pass. Have to go like a camel. But if run all the time to drop off the difficulties, you still will be sent.—
      To faith do come?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»No. We were on tour with Tanya Dogileva. We had an interesting conversation. Her words about God stayed with me. And for ten years we visited the temple.—
      Happens to you is that I want to drop everything and go somewhere?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Of course, it happens! At such moments, I lay down on the bed and crying. Alarmed all at once. Fits Junior Thomas: “Mom, what’s wrong with you? Are you crying? – Yes, son. – Why? Is happiness”. Lie so as long as the tears will not end. And then there comes a new day.
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»
      And weekend you are given?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Once a month. On this day, I can bake a cake some with the invention. Really love to cook. Is in the process of unexplainable magic. I like to feed the children. They praised me. I prefer simple dishes: buckwheat, meat, potatoes. No don’t order the parfait. Can and cleaning day off to start, but without fanaticism.—
      Olesya, you have two sisters. Often communicate?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»I have older sisters – Oksana and Folk. Both work. Communicate more often by phone, see each other rarely. We all have our own families and concerns. I hope for the may holidays, when it will be warm, all gather together for a barbecue. Is family very important to me. My husband and children constantly say: “That’s when dad will not be closer to each other so no one will be.”—
      And that they respond to it?
      Олеся Железняк: «В трудные моменты ложусь на кровать и плачу»Nothing. Fighting over everything. Every child believes that he is the only one. Here today, Prokhorov admitted to me that he no gifts are necessary, just my attention. Well it is always. Love does not happen much. So we will try. The main thing that the children were okay, and the rest will follow.